Eheh, it's cool. Anyways, it's not like I actually listen to a lot of the really extreme end of things anyways. The death/black stuff I listen to is usually more progressive or melodic than outright brutal. I mean, my favourite death metal band is Opeth, and half the time they sound like this:

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Go on, listen to it. ...They did an entire album like that, even. And somehow got away with it without being branded sellouts. XD Although most of their stuff seems to mix that style with more brutal death metal stylings. A lot of the time in the same song, even. It helps that the lead singer has an utterly amazing voice; he can go from singing like an angel to roaring like a demon at the drop of a hat. XD