I just wanna say, I'm not really on board with really looking down on Pally for how he's handled himself in the past, or is still handling himself. I know a lot of you guys got through adolescence and early adulthood with few hiccups, or you simply aren't around the people who would remember your rough times. 

My only issue with Pally is that I feel he doesn't take advice, input, or has any real desire to see outside his own perspective. If I were to judge something about you Pally, that would be it. The fatalism and bravado and anger and insecurities are workable, but that is what needs your attention. Open up your mind a little and see outside the narrow worldview you've built.