[quote=Araby264] She just got a divorce (her fourth) And before the divorce is even final she is seriously dating another guy who is already hanging around the house and when I try to talk to her about it she blows me off. I'm going to kill something out of frustration soon. It's not even about me, I couldn't give two shits, but My little brother and sister are both getting the wrong image about marriage and they aren't going to get a stable father figure. she already did that to me, and I'll be damned if she does it to them. [/quote] Ah. I feel the pain of that last part man. But big brothers are there to care for their siblings, even if the parents can't or won't. So all I can say is good luck, and here's hoping to you being a great Nii-san.