[quote=Kestrel]
Only if it's the woman.
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*tips fedora*

m'lady.
[quote=So Boerd]
The argument here can be used to justify anything.So you are telling me that if a husband or wife is tired of the kids they can just take their share of the money, hop on a plane to Cancun and the other partner is selfish for wanting the kids to have their mother/father and the absentee parent is not? Give me a break.
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This is so stupid it actually hurts in my soul.