[quote=Heroic]
Changing is not always necessary. I can get better or improve myself without completely changing myself. My thumbs are getting sore, so I'm going to avoid longer responses now, but that basically covers what I want to say, I think.
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Change is literally the most necessary thing to ever be a thing. "Everything must change". Whether you change in ways that can't be noticed or in ways that are fundamental, whether you change for better or for worse, there has to be a catalyst. And I promise you, with absolute sincerity and a lifetime of experience, choosing the catalyst and the change is far, far better than letting life choose.