[quote=Heroic]
Everything must change, I won't argue with that statement. That does not mean that everything has to constantly be changing. I have the power in me to choose if I want to change or not. People have tendencies to subconsciously start changing, but just as enough will to change can make a person change, enough will to not change will make a person stay the same.
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I hate to play this card, but you'll figure it out someday. I just hope you can avoid all the pitfalls along the way.