[quote=So Boerd]
Doesn't matter. In this case, I defined totally tolerant society the most pragmatic way, where the overwhelming majority of people are cool with whatever the non-conformists do so long as it causes no physical harm.
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But in such a society there wouldn't be cases such as not making a cake for a gay couple because that's not tolerance but discrimination.
On top of that, someone's sexuality is not a choice so it has nothing to do with conforming or not as far as being that sexuality is concerned.

Acting on it? Maybe, but if being open about being Gay is something that would get negative reactions then like said above it's not tolerance.