[quote=Mistress Dizzy] *just hugs Calla* We're more alike than you think. You seem younger than I, but that may be an illusion. Maybe you're right, and something's triggering me about Gretchen's behavior, because of my own experiences. All I know is that line between fiction and reality is being smudged. That rarely, very rarely happens with me. *frowns, bites lip* Anyway, Dioxide, let me make clear that none of this is your fault at all. It's my reaction, therefore it's mine to manage. Someone intelligent that I trust dearly says 'We're responsible for our own triggers.' Basically, if something bothers you, don't blame the source- find out what within you is reacting and seek to adjust it if necessary. [/quote] *Hugs Mistress Dizzy back* Yeah Dioxide, you just keep being awesome. Gretchen is probably sweet or something when you get to know her. *Hugs Dioxide* Just so you guys know, I'm probably taller then you so this is kind of awkward...