I'll be honest man I've been to RPA, Iwaku, and a number of other sites its not like this is uncommon for me. And its not healthy I've just come to accept it for what it is.
Than we really haven't been frequenting the same sites. Either way, the way I see it this place is dying and people have just given up.
And if I have to choose between giving up RPing in general and falling into this state of living death it's no choice at all.