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New(ish)

Welcome back(ish) to the site. Love the name too.

Nation-RP subgrouping has given me an idea...

Pretty much what Jorick said. When a search feature is implemented, the hope is you'd be able to narrow down exactly what you want and filter out the rest, and be done with it. The more sub-forums you have on the main page, the worse, if you ask me. The Nation RP one alone gave our resident trolls aneurysms, I'd just hate to see them all completely die out because it was overloaded.

A question about Gender and Identity.

Personally I think it "translates" into those labels if you let it. When I see a male or female, that's what I acknowledge, along with other observations such as hair or eye color. But when I see a male I don't think "well he's masculine and probably brings home the paycheck" nor when I see a female do I think "well she's probably a housewife and is weaker than her husband."

For me to know whether this male is the big macho, bread winning, emotion hiding slab of meat would require me to spend a certain amount of time with him to understand who he is, where he comes from, and what traits make him the individual he is. Perhaps I just have an odd way of thinking, but I can't imagine people go beyond a certain point mentally when you're taking somebody in physically, especially a complete stranger. Maybe I'm also just way off base, I'm special, you know.

tl;dr: Yes, you can look at somebody without perceived gender roles being attached.

Hello, I am Joe

Welcome to the site newb. Enjoy your new adventures.

is there a way to report someone on the site?

That function is in the works no doubt, in the mean time you'll just have to PM one of these fine folks: Lillian Thorne, Kangaroo, HeySeuss or Mahz

Hello there!

Welcome to the site. You'll find plenty of Doctor Who fans and RP here.

Recurring Dreams

I couldn't tell you what they mean, if you go on Google you can find a site that will help "interpret" common themes in dreams. If it causes you distress or interrupts your sleep a lot you may want to consider speaking to somebody in a more professional setting. As far as control goes, I believe you can and you can also read up on it using Google, but it seems to be a difficult ability to gain control of, no pun intended.

Personally I don't often recall my dreams, I have a lot of anxiety and panic attacks so I'm not sure how much I actually get to spend in the REM cycle every night. Anyway, do some research, you never know what you'll uncover.

Hello

Welcome to the new site.

The Chocobo forest

This room is covered in feathers and... what ever THAT is....

Take my hand and we'll make it, I swear.

Welcome to the site, eh?