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Return of the Dragon Tamers: The Plague of Ogual

Lol it's okay, I understand. I'm just so used to coming on here and chatting with everyone lol.
I just broke up with my bf so I've got a lot more time on my hands. :|

Return of the Dragon Tamers: The Plague of Ogual

Wow. This thread is dead lately lol

Harvest Moon: A New Chapter

manapool1 said
hey I'll let he take my slot.

You're dropping out?

Breakup blues remedies anyone? :(

Griever said
Your priorities come first.If a man wasn't willing to put up with your life, he would have been gone a long time ago. I think you made a bad choice honestly.

He's the type of guy who wouldn't ever dare speak out about his emotions. If his own mother just died and I asked if he was okay it'd be "I'm fine" and he'd put on that poker face. He's dropped hints that he's not happy, always asking for more time together and hinting at the obvious. But he would never, never, leave me because I have a full plate. He's too good a man for that. But I think that in any relationship, both people have to get what they need. And he wasn't getting it.

Also... I was his first girlfriend. And he's 24. So that might be why he has such a hard time understanding that a relationship isn't just doing what your girlfriend wants when she wants, it's about working together to be fulfilled, I guess.

Maybe you're right though..

I Donno, like I said, I just couldn't do it anymore. I couldn't sit there any tell him week after week that "I don't have time for you" because I know how much it hurts to hear that.

Monks of the Solemn Monastery

Ill put up my CS today for sure :) question though, if they're monks of the light wouldn't it be weird for them to have an inward and outward persona? Wouldn't that come across as being fake or not showing your true colors? Lol I might be wrong.

And so are we monks or closer to paladins?

Breakup blues remedies anyone? :(

Thankyou all for being so kind and helpful, your words make me feel better and I think you're all right, as much as I don't want to let him disappear from my life mybe that is the best thing for us.

Ugh.
Never again. I'm not dating till my kid moves out.

Harvest Moon: A New Chapter

Yes, I'm sorry, for the time being they're closed as we already have a lot of characters. Also, the very first post has the list if characters on it.... Lol but keep your eyes on it, it anyone drops out you can defs join. I might even drop a few characters and just focus on my mains, so I'll let you know

Breakup blues remedies anyone? :(

I just left my boyfriend of 6 months, who is also my best friend. I didn't want to but I don't have time to be in a relationship... I'm a single mother and full time student, I have one friend whom I see once a month or two becuase I'm so busy.

This guy, he waited around to see me for a few hours a week for 6 months, he would do anything for me. But I can't give him more time hat I don't have.

So I let him go, he deserves to find a girlfriend who has time to spend with him and be there for him.

I never told him that I love him, even though I have for a long time now. He's the most special person in my life and the best friend I could ask for. But I can't just sit there and lead him on, telling him "oh I'll have more time for you next semester" or "maybe after item you son to bed" every single day, and it never happening.

He shouldn't have to hide his own feelings because he doesn't want to make me feel bad for having priorities. His feelings are just as important. But he's too good of a man to make me feel bad about not having Time for him. Bah. I just, ugh, I didn't want to leave him.

But really, what kind of person would I be if made a guy that genuine stand in the shadows waiting for his girlfriend to find some time to give him while he sits and keeps quiet about how hard it is for him.

A monster, that's what.



So...
How do you all deal with breakups? It's been a few years since I've dealt with one so I'm not really sure what to do with myself.

Light Monk RP

I think id like to see the OOC and get a little more into it before I suggest anything ^.^

Light Monk RP

Demonx said
Interested.Will be lurking to see how this turns out!

D <3