I didn't intend to, but I wound up taking quite the hiatus. As such, I'm making a slightly new thread, but with most of the same rules and guidelines I had in my previous thread. So without much further ado, let's go to the first section, shall we?
About Me, Rules, & Writing Preferences:
So, here are some quick facts about me:
- I’m married, in my 30s, and have a teenager daughter
- I’m in PST time zone
- My husband is also my husdom [husband/dominant/Master]
- I’m a Virgo to a fault. This means I’m a perfectionist with myself and am incredibly hard on myself.
- My Moon Sign is Aquarius and Rising is Pisces, for anyone curious enough with Astrology
- I’m bisexual, demisexual, polysexual, and gender fluid.
- I am a Pagan who does have Nordic ancestry and thus follows both the Norse and Greek pantheons extensively. Why Greek? Because that holds a special place in my heart as one of the first civilizations I learned about and fell in love with, that’s why.
- My original first dream job was to be an (Hollywood, not porn) actress.
- More that I can, and will [if I want to], disclose if you kindly ask.
1. Real Life Before Here: My real life might suck, but the fact is, it exists. I will not always be around to reply due to a combination of factors, from my mood to any appointments I may have behind my screen, college, and much, much, more. If you’re wanting someone who replies quickly, I wouldn’t recommend PMming me.
2. BMR Rules: They will be adhered to! This includes aging up any canons/characters up to at least 16, which is the absolute youngest age I can comfortably play as. That said, I can easily have my characters be anywhere from 17-29, or even older if the RP/characters need to be in their 30s/40s+.
3. Absolutely No Godmodding!: Self-explanatory, I hope.
4. Respect My Limits!: This should be self-explanatory, but you’d be amazed at how many people prove they don’t read my rules by trying to suggest plots that include things I loathe like cheating/adultery. No means no.
5. General Respect: In other words, apply to this me as a person/writer, not just my kinks and what I want to include and/or exclude.
6. Collaborate With Me!: I don’t want to be the only person putting in any effort! If I wanted to do something myself, I have an AO3 account I can use for writing fanfiction! Role plays are meant to be between two (or more) individuals! I thus expect any potential partners to contribute and not just rely on me to move everything along.
7. Grab My Attention!: When you contact me, be it via PM or messaging me on Discord, offer me much more than a simple “Hi! Wanna RP?” message. Those will be ignored. Give me a genre, title, pairing(s), plot idea – literally anything that’ll have a better chance of peaking my interest over asking a simple question. If I didn’t wanna RP, I wouldn’t have made this thread.
8. Role Play Locations: I will offer four places to write with any potential partners. These are listed from most to least desired; Discord, Blue Moon threads, Google Docs, and PMs.
9. Contacting Me: You can message me on Discord at
. Please let me know that you're from RPG, and not just some random stranger messaging me!
10. TBA: More can and will be added as needed.
Writing Preferences:
- I write in 3rd Person POV and prefer if my partner would. I only write 1st person if my character is typing an email, text, or other similar correspondence. Otherwise, I use 3rd Person POV.
- I can play both males and females, though I am approached primarily to play as the latter.
- Although I haven’t played male characters often, I can say for certain none will be 100% abusive/sadistic. They will be strict at worst and enforce rules, but they will not be unnecessarily cruel. If you want a nonconsensual RP where I play a male, I am not the partner for you. Dub-con will likely be okay with me to do, but even then, that will be a huge maybe.
- My female characters, meanwhile, are sexually submissive. Note the keywords there; sexually submissive. Meaning in the bedroom. Outside of it, they always have goals and ambitions. Quite a few are uppity tomboys and even punks, and even the shyer ones aren’t afraid to raise their voice if needed.
- I’m perfectly fine with writing Canon x Canon and OC x OC pairings. Note that if you approach me for Canon x OC, where I’m the Canon and you’re the OC, there’s a 99.9% chance I will ask you to return the favor for me. There are few times I’m fine with a partner not doubling. You have been warned!
- This is a huge point that I cannot emphasize enough! 9.9/10 times, you will have a lot better luck coaxing me to do a fandom RP over an original one. I have always been better with them and they just last longer. I somehow find myself getting bored of original RPs much quicker than fandom ones. You are more than free to toss ideas over; just don’t be amazed if I reject them.
- Visuals for your characters are very, very highly preferred. I’m a visual person. Whether your picture is anime style, digital, or a real face claim - I don’t care. Likewise, I expect you to allow me the freedom to choose what type of image I use, unless you can offer me a reason to give you an exception.
Kinks & Anti-Kinks:
As a rule of thumb, if you don’t see something listed, ask. I’m simply listing my absolute favorites and the things that I will never touch with a 10 foot pole. I implore you - for the love of all that’s holy or otherwise - do not try to ask me if I want any of my anti-kinks! Failure to heed this rule can - and likely will - lead to you being ignored or even outright blocked if you continue to pester me for something I’ve said I don’t want to include.
My Favorite Kinks!:
My Anti-Kinks!: