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I really, very much like this idea. I currently have a separate forum for the information for my original world. It would be both convenient and less awkward if I were to be able to keep the information in a related space.

I also like the idea of limited moderator privileges over one's own RP. However, would one of those privileges to be able to extend those privileges to another, in the case of Co-GM's?
I've yet to receive a response from Anderiel. I am going to NPC her character as well as the 12th, and 3rd Captains, unless someone really wants to take them.

Here is the PP for the IC portion. I'm still waiting for contributions to the first PP from Venom.
http://titanpad.com/sfwesws4Wy
Magic Magnum said
Understandable, and I wasn't complaining. Just stating that when given limited info to go off of my responses tend to also be limited.1. This is where the difference of Discipline VS Punishment comes into play.Being in ECE (Early Childhood Education) at college atm this is something I've already been trained in.Discipline is the result/reaction to a misbehaviour that relates to the misbehaviour.Punishment is a result/reaction that doesn't relate. It is simply there to make the receiver feel bad for what they did.For example, a child is pouring milk and spills it all over the floor.Discipline would be having the child grab a mop and clean it up.Punishment would be sending them to their room, yelling at them or slapping their wrist for it.Raising a child on discipline allows the child to learn and see the natural consequences of their actions.They gain and are given (By their mentor/guardian) insight, explanation and reasoning for what happened, why it happened and what should happen as a result.This allows for more healthy and positive child development, a better relationship between parent & child and a better understanding on what and why something is wrong.Also, punishment like hitting is never, ever necessary to teach your child a lesson.Is it easy? Yes, if you're the kind of parent you can stomach your child being in pain.Can it make them stop? Maybe, depends on the child.Does the child walk away with much outside of injuries and bruises? Maybe guilt, and anything that causes them to understand what they did is wrong can be better done with discipline, natural consequences and communication.
I agree with you, but there are some things were discipline is difficult or impossible to enact due to the nature of the misbehavior. This is why I specified the social and emotional mores and taboos which might call for punishment rather than discipline. It's difficult to make a child feel a certain emotion and furthermore to make them realize that other people even have emotions (considering how socio or psychopathic the child).
Also, if they purposefully spill something and know that their discipline will be to clean it up, they might learn that they can spill it whenever they like as long as they clean it up, resulting in wasteful and counter-productive behavior.
That's stretching for a counter-argument, but something I just thought up that might be legitimate >.> I dunno...
Halo said Do you not think that for some other children, receiving a shocking contact or show of violence from those they look to for love and comfort would instead sow mistrust and uncertainty?
Of course that is a possibility. It’s entirely situational. However, it still heavily (not completely) depends on the relationship between child and parent. Like any other disciplinary action, if it proves ineffective or traumatizing for the child then it must be changed.

Halo said And, considering your conclusion on the matter, if one were to propose a ban on smacking, would you be opposed to it or for it?
There is a law against corporal punishment as well as spanking. I am against the latter.

Halo said I am assuming, judging by your pronouncement of being pro-physical discipline, that you'd be opposed to it, in which case how does one ensure that it is being used in a safe and effective way rather than as abuse or even just on a child for whom it is ineffective due to either their psychology or the rest of their parents' parenting style?
There is no effective way to regulate this form of discipline without micro-managing the behaviors of others. I could go further and say that that is already a norm but I could also say that it’s a slippery slope to the corruptive control of the population. Adults should have the logic to understand the line between discipline and abuse, but we all know that that is not the case and that some have not learned the difference due to the improper application of said discipline. Overall, lack of education on the subject contributes to the issue.

Halo said Your view of fertility tourism is exceptionally balanced and incorporates ideas from both sides, so I can't ask you too many questions on it from either side's perspective. Thank you for responding, though.
Was I able to consider anything you haven’t yet considered? Just wondering if my opinion was helpful in any way.
You’re welcome. And I like discussions like these. ^^
1.) I'm pro-physical discipline. I believe children don't understand the social and emotional repercussions of their actions and that pain is the quickest but also most directly effective way of curbing any socially-unwanted behavior. Of course, there needs to be regulation of this method. Also, there needs to be a strong connection with the parents. If the child does not respect the parent(s) then they will not respect the method of discipline. But that goes for any form of punishment. I was hit as a child and had a strong relationship with my parents. When they hit me I felt guilt more often than pain. This strike to the child should be for the shock value, not the pain value. In my early childhood I got the wooden spoon, which was very painful. I know quite a few other people my age that received similar treatment. However, I believe that that is a bit radical. Perhaps a few times will do the trick for the right "crimes." As for smacking the cheek (either one), it was more of a jolt of unwanted contact coming from someone who I looked to provide me comfort and love. When an opposite result was provided due to my inappropriate behavior, I realized I was doing something wrong without being taken aside and given a lecture. Often I knew that the behavior was inappropriate and unacceptable and acted against my sense of self-discipline. Perhaps I was in a fit of hightened emotions and not behaving properly because of it. Regardless of the cause, it brought me to the conclusion that I was behaving inappropriately and to reconsider my actions.
These punishments don't work when the child lacks empathy for others or respect for their parents. So the effectiveness of this punishment, I believe, directly correlates to the parenting method as well as the psychology of the child.

2.) Inherently dangerous when traveling to a possibly illegitimate doctor who conducts possibly unsafe procedures. I don't know whether to be apathetic to their ignorance over the danger or impressed with their initiative to attain what they want. Overall, I'm indifferent upon this topic and believe people will seek out what they will when they are dissatisfied with their current state of being. It is unethical for the doctors to not disclose all possible outcomes of any and all treatments they provide. However, the individual seeking treatment might also not fully realize what these consequences may fully entail and might be so desperate as to ignore them. If that is the case, then I hold no sympathy. I also don't believe it to be the country's place to place a cap on human reproduction. If they want to bury themselves in their own people, so be it.
To label "ethical or unethical" upon this would be counter-productive and has too many layers with which to do so effectively. Someone wishing to bear children through any means isn't inherently "unethical," but certainly brings about unethical behaviors, however ignorant.

Overall, it's not entirely productive to discuss the ethics of these topics without both sides being open to discussion. I understand that this is for a debate and that each side shall have their opposing yet (hopefully) legitimate proofs. It's also difficult for a pro/con side to actually take the consideration of the other when forced/conditioned to see only one side. I wish you luck on your debates.
Venom: There is no post length with which to match. Three paragraphs is the minimum...so there you go ;)
You can make as many characters as you can handle. Feel free to fill in any position you wish to fill in. As for interactions, I'll cover that for everyone. Don't worry. ;)

I think I'll be able to contribute to the Pad tomorrow. Again, I apologize for my inactivity. Winter is just not my season, it seems. :(
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I haven't been able to stay at a computer long enough to even type anything substantial.

Since I couldn't figure out how to do GoogleDocs, here's a PublicPad for us to use. The bullet points are what I know we will discuss. Changes may occur. For now, you can write in what your character would mention and begin initial conversation. Just keep in mind that opinions/items may change as others join to contribute.

Again, I apologize for my inactivity. Life's not so smooth at the moment, if only because I'm so anxious and oddly depressed (meaning a "different" depression than what I've experienced in the past). Not trying to bring this down or make excuses, just know that I'm not psychologically fit and don't feel completely apt to run this effectively which has contributed to my lack of activity. Rather than just keep quite, I thought I'd let you all know. ;)
Sorry I've been so inactive. Got sucked into a bout of depression (I think). I'll start the doc or pad tomorrow and we'll discuss further how things should move forward from there.
I actually dislike competitive play entirely because it disregards so much flavor that Pokemon should have. I actually become upset when a Pokemon knows a move it "shouldn't" (like Kyogre knowing Thunder or Starmie knowing Thunderbolt or a wild Buneary knowing Ice Beam). I can't like it and I can't indulge in it. So that question about Noivern was purely in-game value.
That's why when I RP Pokemon, I limit them to specific moves and if I run them, I make everyone do it (mwahaha!). I simply don't care for the "competitive" movesets and care more for the flavor and style of the Pokemon itself. I don't know why I'm so anal about it, but I am. >.>

AT: and you shouldn't be ashamed. It's good to be able to know a lot about something you're interested in! It's just that I have no idea what "underused" and the rest of those things mean. I don't even know what "parahax" means since Spore makes a Pokemon sleep, not paralyzed. I've watched quite a few competitive battles on youtube but never really understood some of the lingo.
But then again, this discussion isn't for competitive play (which you talked about with most of your favorites). It's more about flavor and personal connections. Granted, you being competitive will have a lot to do with what you like and dislike, which is fine. Just something I noticed, not hatin'. ;)
Haha! Kestrel, Kaga...too funny. I'm glad I'm not the only one who has "foolish" favorites that aren't necessarily competitive but just fun to have or appreciate the design of.

Kestrel: I know Staraptor is one of the better birds, but I always thought it was ugly. :(
I actually liked Mismagius. I used one in Pearl and thought of her exactly how you did. I couldn't help but cackle when I sent her out sometimes. >.>
I have to agree with you on Delphox. Even though it was my starter, I can't get over the hair puffs that look like wings coming out of its ears. Too weird.
I actually didn't think Mienshou was any good. I thought its design of was interesting but didn't think it held any value. I'm interested to know that it does and maybe now I wouldn't mind trying to train one.

Kaga: I think that's another reason I actually care for Crobat to some degree. ;)
Ah! Another Sandslash lover! XD
I'm actually using Pidgeot in my second party in Y right now. I forgot how good it was. It's fun to use.
How do you get over those hair puffs, or whatever they are, coming from its ears (Delphox)?
I guess I'm not alone in my interest in Flygon. I just feel like mine is less legitimate. :(
You like cotton candy...that's cool! ^^
Is Noivern any good in battle?

Follow up question: What would your top three favorite typings be? I guess dual-types can be allowed.
If it wasn't gathered from my post, it is Fire, Bug, then Fighting.
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