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Basically what Omega, Zaresto and MDK have already said.

Zacharius said
I think a number of feminist groups have taken it too far, but applying that to all modern feminists is not only inaccurate, but also damaging to a movement that still has a heck of a lot to do, both globally and within 'the West' which likes to look at gender inequality as a fixed issue, when in a lot of cases it isn't.


If by heck of a lot to do you mean in less well off 3rd world countries then yes you're right.

In 1st world though, not so much.
Gender inequality is not a fixed issue, but rather an issue that now plagues men and women equally.
So having our counter to it being something that simply focuses on one gender is not appropriate to the problem we face today.

It may of worked in the past, when women are clearly the lesser gender in terms of rights.
But as problems and issues change so must the way we approach and solve them.

Sure, doing feminism might help women representations in media and gaming, acceptance in geek culture, more control of their bodies etc.
But what about the men and being able to report being raped or assaulted without being laughed at?
To be able to have a decent shot at gaining child custody rather than starting off the court case with a huge disadvantage simply for being male?
To be able to cry and talk about how they feel without being laughed at?
To not always be the one expected to provide for the family, pay for everything their girlfriend/wife wants, do all the leg work/first moves simply cause he's male?
To not always be pressured by the media to be ripped, tall etc?

There's a lot of discrimination against men that people just ignore or cast aside just cause it's seen as culturally normal we were raised to treat this stuff like 'common fact' that men must be tough and the take charge people always.
Praise the one and true god Gaben, heed his sacred words.



In all seriousness though.
I really don't feel like re-typing all the points from that thread when there's no one in specific being replied too.

So I'll leave The original topic link here so people can scan through my posts to get my stance on the issue if they want.

But I more expect those I were debating to simply come here and continue it, so people will be able to see my stance on the matter anyways.
mdk said
I could've sworn we've had this **exact** conversation less than two weeks ago.


We did.

Different people this time though.
If it were all the same people I'd call this a pointless repeat.
But with it being mostly new faces it means different perspectives and points can be brought up.
Jett Ryu said
That actually goes to one of my classmates ( congrats on getting runner-up, Svenn). He showed up to the funeral just to get out of school, and he openly admitted it shortly before the service started to one of our classmates. That's damn disrespectful. The dead deserve more respect than that.


Ok, agreed then. Svenn does get second place.
It really, REALLY bugs me when people pull shit like that... -.-

There was one guy who was killed at my school and there were a number of people who apparently went to the funeral just to skip class.
The amount of heartlessness people have is earth shattering.

mdk said
People say dumb shit. I don't doubt that was one of the reasons he showed up, and probably the one he wants people to think is real, because callouses are tougher than regular skin. But callouses only grow in places where you've been damaged.


Eh...

Really depends on the individual.
My High School had it's fair share of heartless, mindless, waste of air people who would pull shit like this any chance they got.
Granted I don't know their history, these assholes could of had pretty bad upbringings.

But either way there are defelently High Schooler's who would crash a funeral just to miss a class.
Brovo and MDK bring up good points I forgot to consider.

I understand the rationale of the drug may not be fully tested, but it's take the drug or the child dies.
But because of how drug testing and sale laws work, if it did go wrong that could cause far more people to not get the help they needed.

mdk said
This is tempting me to do another 'How to read the news' posting, like I did in Turt's spam thread, but this really doesn't seem the place. I am curious though, so I'm gonna look at some more data on compassionate use and come back with what I find (anticipate, because it's bureaucracy, that the actual answer is sort of cold and disinterested and devoid of actual compassion).


I agree it's still the news and up to debate and bias.
I'm simply saying "At least this one isn't Fox News".
Now that I'm back. Time to get those other Bible quotes.

Note: I'm not doing full through Bible searches for all of them, just listing a few of each to get my point across.

Note 2: Due to how search results go, most of these are from the King James version.
If you want me to get quotes from a specific version, please say so.

I had a case last time where the topic of the Bible supporting Rape popped up and I showed quotes to a member proving that it did.
Only for a different member to later barge in and basically go "That's not my bible, so they don't count".
So if you are the kind who needs it from a specific version in order to count it, please clarify now rather than randomly pulling that card later.
It's annoying, and honestly just slows down the process cause almost all the books and translations are identical for the most part anyways (as it was in the case mentioned above too).









ShonHarris said -snip-


That honestly doesn't sound like first world problems (at least in the cultural sense of the term).
Those seem like legit problems to be worried about. Being right on the border can be dangerous and is extremely fragile.
I hope you manage to find the extra hours and/or better pay soon.

Brovo said
It's too late, I don't think they'll listen when already asked and they didn't stop.


Yup, it's far too late stop this train. :P

I am more than willing to move this to another topic though if people want.

Jannah said Those verses do exist and are vile, but there's also positive verses that have been used for good. To give a recent example, there's pastors who support LGBT rights and how do they justify it? By using Jesus' words of love. To me, and what I know of Jesus, that is what Christianity should be about, but unfortunately it's not for a lot of people. (I'm an atheist.)


To me that's the same as saying "I knowing he's a raping, murdering, racist homophobic lunatic. But he's a nice guy if you get to know him".
Not in the sense that I claim all religious people are like that (In fact, that's not what I'm implying in the slightest). But in terms of how I view the Religion itself.
The good and bad are all part of that religion, and I'm not going to ignore all the vile stuff in the religion just cause it might also have some good in it.

Now to clarify, often times when this debate happens people confused my strong disliking of Religion for a strong disliking for religious people.
I do not dislike people who are Religious, my issue is not with them. But with the foundation of the Religion itself, the fact something that has no evidence to support not only causes so many people to regard it as fact, but has been known as either the cause, or the tool used for many if not all of the most barbaric acts in human history.

Jannah said We've been almost entirely in agreement up until now. I have my views, but oftentimes I feel they're just better to keep to myself in order to avoid flame war(I have learned the hard way). I'm sure there's many other people who are hesitant to discuss hot topics for that same reason, and that's understandable. Also, it's worth noting that even with opposing views friendships can work. LSW and I have complete polar opposite views yet we get along wonderfully. There has only been one major conflict between us, but we both got over it quickly, not wanting to lose each other.


I feel the need to clarify first, I was not trying to say "If we disagree on something we can't be friends".
Disagreeing can be good, it means people are thinking for themselves and not blindly following whatever they are told.
It means there are multiple view points and perspectives to look from, giving humanity for diversity and variety.

And I will fully admit I am not 100% right in the opinions and stances I can take.
I am positively sure that some of the stances I take in topics will one day turn out to be completely and utterly wrong.
That's what I want. I want to be in a world where people are less concerned with trying to simply prove each other right or wrong, and more on finding the true answer. The right answer.
Focus on the progress of the topic and humanity as a whole, rather than who get's the most renown for winning X debate.

What I was trying to say is I try to be a very blunt and honest person.
I don't ever see any point in being silent and not sharing my opinion when it's relevant to the topic on hand (with obvious social exceptions. Like I'm not going to go to some funeral and say "This guy was an asshole, I did not like _______ in front of their loved ones for example). If I do stay quiet, it means I feel the need to hide part of myself and my thoughts to be accepted by the person, and if I need to hide part of who I am for them to like me then I'd rather just not be accepted by them to begin with.

I don't care if said person disagree's with me or not, but if they choose to take the disagreement personally and cause drama and hate over it. Rather than being civil about the disagreeing and either handling the disagreement is a responsible and mature manner, or simply agreeing to disagree then it's simply not a friendship I care much to keep.

I completely understand others preferring to avoid the topics to keep friendships. They want to be accepted, they don't want a conflict.
I am not saying everyone should be like I am when it comes to this, I'm just stating how I am personally on this.

I've grown up having an entire school hate me, disagree with me and bully me before.
I am strong believer in honesty and openness leads to a better future and decision making cause it puts the facts in front of you.

I am used too people hating my guts and wanting nothing to do with me, and I would not accept myself if I chose to stay quiet or lie about what I thought.
It's just not who I am, and I'm not afraid of the consequences for being open on my thoughts.
LoneSilverWolf said Being religious myself, I can say that there's a LOT of people who give Christians a bad name. The bible says just the OPPOSITE of what you claim your problems with religion are, Magic Magnum. Jesus teaches us to love one another. The people he helped and spent his time with were murderers, thieves, prostitutes...because they needed direction and guidance the most. Jesus didn't shun the non-religious or look down upon them. I think the biggest problem with Christianity today are the people who sit there, with their noses in the air, acting like anyone non-religious is a piece of crap--OR come up with the stupidest shit, like "if you smoke you'll go to hell" (baptists and Catholics are big on this one, among other things).


Jesus himself may of been a decent guy. But that sadly doesn't change what the Bible which Christianity is based off of says.



As for murder, women degrading, racism, homophobia etc.
My family atm is yelling at me to hurry up so we can get going somewhere so I don't got time atm to pull out the quotes.

I'll link some pages of them quickly, but past experience shows that to be messy so I'll pull out specific quote's afterwards.

http://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Killing/
http://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Racism-and-Slavery/
http://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Homosexuality/
http://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Women/

LoneSilverWolf said But not EVERY person who loves and believes in God is like that. MANY of us respect people's right to live any way they choose, and follow our own faith without trying to shove it down everyone's throats. It's just that those who do, they are louder and get more media attention.


I'm not against all religious people, just the way religion is used.
Though I already addressed in the post you replied to that I don't think someone should call themselves a member of ________ religion anyways if they don't follow the Bible.
Which is where a lot of my issues with Religion comes from.

LoneSilverWolf said As for most non-religious people often not shunning people who ARE religious...to put it bluntly, that's bs. I can name a BUNCH of examples where this is simply not true--from taking "under god" out of the US pledge of allegiance, to telling people they aren't allowed to pray quietly in public--which to me, violates not only freedom of religion but freedom of speech. It seems to me, there is this HUUUGE anti-religion movement happening in the United States, where our rights to religious freedom are slowly being chipped away at.


What's happening there is people fighting for the separation of Church and State which is in the american constitution.
People don't want a Religion being given special status among others by putting on their money, on the pledge etc.
America and it's founding father never wanted America to be a Christian Nation, it was Christians who later on made it that way without the consent of everyone non-religious.

Also, no one's saying you can't be religious, or that you can't pray.
What they're saying is that you can't be forcing others into your religion or be forcing others to pray.
But I can sympathize with having grown up in a country where praising God was just common practice to suddenly be told people don't like having to do that and want it to stop having to can seem like discrimination.
But it's really just fighting for the rights of everyone who isn't a Christian.

LoneSilverWolf said And a lot of atheists are incredibly rude and demeaning to those who are religious. I can speak from personal experience here.


I won't argue that part.
This is true, but I mentioned in an earlier post also how this is basically a retaliation to how Religious people demonize those non-religious.
Treat 10-20% of the population like second class citizens simply for who they're attracted to, kicking their own children out suddenly to fend for themselves cause the child is atheist or of another religion etc.

Atheist's may be rude much of the time, but I find that much preferable to the outright horrid treatment Religion causes so many people to inflict on others.

LoneSilverWolf said I seldom even get involved in these kinds of discussions because often, the second I mention that I believe in God, it's like I open the floodgates to total flamage. But I can't be silent on this post, because as much as I've come to like you Magic Magnum, I have to disagree with you on this one. I may not be the perfect Christian, I may have ideas that would have me labeled a heretic in the Renaissance days , but in the end I believe in everyone's right to follow whatever God they choose and not be lashed out and bullied because of it. Likewise, I believe that no religion should bully non-believers either. I think there's room for improvement on both sides, but don't deny the fact that a LOT of non-religious people are quite cruel/judgmental/hateful to anyone who says "I believe in God."


I just tend to be very blunt and straightforward with what I think, and learned to not be afraid of conflict.
The way I see it, if people I know can even agree to disagree with each other stances, the friendship probably wasn't true to start with (Not implying this is our case, I'm speaking in general here).

Honestly, even though we disagree I support you being vocal and standing up for what you think and believe.
We need more people willing to do that if we want to move forward in the world.

A Tattooed Girl said
What's bothering me? .....well, I am back being friends with a girl I've been friends with for almost 9 1/2 years...... she thought I was shacking up with her boyfriend just cause he and I started being friends.. so after they broke up, she saw how close her ex and I got and then she went after my ex, actually slept with him and then called me a bunch of uncalled for names...........................when her and her ex got back together, I backed out of the friendship he and I had cause I didnt wanna complicate things for him and wanted to respect her.....even after all the shit that happened, when it finally hit that we werent friends anymore, I cried and felt as if a part of me had been ripped away from me....................................................now that we are trying to repair our friendship again, it just feels super different (i know its not supposed to be the same as it was before all the bullshit happened....but....).. I feel as if I am walking around in a dream... almost like I dont know what's reality anymore, and its just....mentally and emotionally exhausting.


To put it quite bluntly, from what you've said here your friend sounds like a bitch. :/
And I don't see what made ending another friendship worth it for you.

Though I'm not there personally and just going on what you said here so take this as you will.

LoneSilverWolf said
What's bothering me is that I'm still feeling extremely lonely after someone I thought was good friends and I parted ways. That pain, the hurt...it's still there and it sucks. I see her name every day, and I want to PM or message...and I know I shouldn't because she pretty much made it clear we'll never be friends again. The sickest part of it all, is I never wanted us to be apart, I just wanted this person to realize they were hurting me, and care about that fact. It sucks to lose someone who was so close to you, that you felt almost like they were a of you. That is a pain that nobody should ever have to face, but happens all too often.


I can relate to this :P
Sherlock Holmes said
No, I tend to be the same way. (To a certain degree, anyway.) If I have to grieve, I feel better doing it in private, away from the eyes of others. I prefer if the other people around me simply let me have my own time to internally process everything and they try to treat me relatively normally otherwise. Too much in the way of sympathy and platitudes, however well-intentioned they may be, usually only serve to make me feel worse. It's hard to make suggestions as to what should be done in a situation like this because everyone handles grief differently. It might be appropriate to offer one person a hug, while another person might not want you to say anything. You have to gauge it on a person-by-person basis -- if they seem like someone who might appreciate a few words of comfort, then offer them. If they're more the stoic type, then simply just being there and talking about anything to help shift their thoughts in a different direction (i.e. chitchat about everyday things, sports, music, etc.) may be just the thing.It's ok to feel numb after something like that happening -- it's a lot to take in when one of your peers dies, especially at such a young age. (It kind of puts life in perspective a little bit, which can be hard to process. I somehow always feel it's much harder to lose younger people than it is to lose older people. It's not that younger ones are any more special than the older people we care about, but it's almost like an extra sting of sadness because the younger person had their whole life ahead of them still.) Best of luck, Jett.


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Jett Ryu said
I see. But the thing that bothers me most is that I feel nothing towards this event.


And there is absaloutely nothing wrong with that.
You didn't know him, there's nothing wrong in feeling bad about the death if you never really knew him to begin with.
I can openly admit that I wouldn't feel a thing for the majority of my class mates if they died from something.
If it was a friend of mine? Different story, but if I didn't know them it personally wouldn't effect me.

At least other than the "I hope his family and friends are ok" kind of concern.

Svenn said
Well I mean, you were 'Sick' when he died... Suspicious.


And asshole of the week award goes to you!
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If not, you can always just ask for a Co-GM like mentioned above, ask other players to help teach you more or simply explain your lack of knowledge ahead of time so they're understanding.
Brovo said Have you seen the one where mass generalizations based on the vocal minority of a faction or culture represent the entirety of that faction or culture?There's still plenty of admirable feminists, most notable in the middle east.Just figured I'd note that, because whilst I usually argue from the opposite viewpoint, it helps to remember to dehumanize entire groups of people by mocking the most vocally stupid among them.


That wasn't meant to say what all feminist think.
That was just meant to highlight some of the crazy stuff that have been said by a group of feminist before.

I still disagree with modern feminism today as a whole though for focusing on only one gender/sex when both are discriminated against.
I know sometimes people will argue "But feminism also fights for male rights just as much" in which case I say if the efforts and intentions are indeed equal why do they still feel a need to call themselves feminist?

Dark Wind said Good to see you too, Magnum :) Although, I've been around, just haven't participated much in Off-Topic, etc. Been especially busy lately.


Understandable. OT was pretty dead for a while when the Guild got up again anyways.

Dark Wind said Sure, there is a thinking of male dominancy. Is it justified? I'd suggest it is, considering the history of the world. I'd also suggest there are more than just "some" good feminists out there, I'd point out there are numerous good feminists out there. Outspoken, extremist thinkers do not reflect the whole. If they are given more media attention, it is not the fault of other feminists.


Sorry, wasn't until I read your response until I noticed the typo I made. When I said male dominancy I meant female.
Though that was mostly in reference to 1st world countries, I strongly agree there is a clear male dominancy in 3rd world countries.
Where honestly is where femenist's should focus their efforts rather than in places they are already equals.

As for media attention. I remember it was mentioned a bit earlier that those good feminist keep it secret and behind the scenes.
But if feminism was truly doing all these good things, why aren't they making it public and letting people know of the good they do?
Rather than sit back and allow the extremist to fully represent their cause to the public?

It just doesn't make sense to me. If I was a feminist and working on some law to help women and/or men I'd work my hardest to make it public so people would be aware that we still do some good.

Dark Wind said Again, I'm not saying that is right. I don't condone cultural stigmas or discrimination of any kind, and the fear of women in ECE of men letting men work with infants is misguided. It's also a bit misguided to suggest that that fear should be linked to feminism. Just because someone has a fear of a man working with children, does not make them a feminist.


The ECE example wasn't meant to claim that's what feminist think.
It was meant to highlight an example of male cultural discrimination outside of the typical points of rape/assault charges and child custody.

Dark Wind said Granted. Yet there is an outspoken group of atheists who want to yell how stupid religious people are and make fun of them for their beliefs. As is an outspoken group of religious people who think the same of atheists. Does this make either side right? I'd firmly say no. There are good religious people and good atheist people. The quicker we learn to accept each others beliefs without imposing out beliefs on others, the faster we can coexist peacefully.Quick note before it gets brought up, I believe religion should be left outside of the class room. Especially creationism. Unless creationism is addressed within a theology course, which is a much different discussion.


(Pre-Warning: I rant a bit here, and I'm unsure if my message remained clear during it. If it doesn't seem clear please say so)

I'm in a group on facebook where this is a common mindset on atheist.
So I can relate and agree that there are troublesome atheists who only add conflict to the issue at hand.

However, most cases of it I've seen were provoked.
Retaliations to religious people trying to force their religion on others in schools, throwing their children onto the street's for not believing anymore, raising their children to either feel like they are terrible people who need saving or simply without a proper explanation of science and how the world works. How Religion treat's about 10-20% of the world population as second class citizens cause of who they are attracted to.

Are these atheist reactions 100% Justified? No, they aren't.
But Religion has ruined the lives on many people, may be it through discrimination and family break ups, or simply cutting them off from a fair and unbias education.
So the anger many atheists hold towards Religion and religious people is at least understandable.

The other half of the problem is simply proof, evidence and contradictions.
Religion is full of contradictions, and rarely has any kind of valid proof or evidence for it.
Scientifically and Rationally speaking, there is no reason to treat it as fact, or teach it to others as fact.

But many religious people do in fact see it as fact, as much a fact (or more so) than Science who has tons of evidence and proof to back it up.
Also if science is proved wrong somewhere it adapts and change's their theories to fit the new information.
In Religion to highlight something wrong is called words of the devil and people get shammed for questioning what they're told to believe.

This leads to the issue where you've got all these people wanting Religion to be treated, looked at and taught with the same validity as Science.
Something which any community that prides itself on science and evidence would never allow, creating conflict.
And even if say Religion got through, you've got hundreds of thousands of kinds to choose from and you can normally only pick one without even the ones you pick getting angry.

I would agree with everyone learning to accept each others belief's, agreeing to disagree on it.
But to accept in the sense of accepting it into society as something people should live by, research by, rule by etc. is going backwards in scientific progress.

Dark Wind said
Also, not to get too distracted from the OP's question…What's bothering me is that it's spring break, yet my professors decided to give me 20+ pages of script writing to do, an eight page exam paper, 300+ pages of reading to do, and another 4 pages of assignments. What's the point of a break if you're going to do that, lol.


Well obviously cause that week off is meant for teachers to load you full of work with! :P

Honestly though, I remember hearing before that those weeks off are meant for mental health to keep suicide rates at college's and universities down.
The fact they use it as a time to stack of work for is completely contradicting to the reason we have said breaks to begin with. -.-

And I can't say for your program specifically, but I normally find the reading's are never needed for the courses.
Normally just repeat of what's already taught in class.
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