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Wow...and you were JUST there. sigh it's at least looking better now though right? I mean it's under control, he'll be okay.
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I hope so. Mom is a nurse and she says he should recover.
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good to hear. I can't imagine how scary that was.
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My brother, Dan, is still sedated, but things are looking more positive now. My mother says that anyone else would already be dead. He is to stubborn to die. My post was short, probably because I am still a bit shaky, but I also thought that if we could write some shorter posts, our characters could actually have a conversation, rather than glossing over the days a bit with longer posts, if that is O.K. with you.
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Yeah, moments like this deserve shorter posts. No worries.

Wow...that's crazy... So I started seeing a therapist for some troublesome things going on right now, and she said I need to find when I live 'in the moment'. Its stuff like this that reminds me to do this, you never know what'll happen tomorrow. So glad he's okay!
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Living in the moment is good. I see a therapist once a month also, because of some issues. There is nothing wrong with that. We all need help. The future is fluid and the past is set. The now we can influence though.
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Really? That's helpful to hear, I feel a bit silly but it's been needed for years, just couldn't afford it. And frankly, I didn't think the situation was 'dire' enough for it. But where is that line, where it becomes "dire enough"? There isn't one. So I stopped looking at it like I needed "special help" and that I just need advice. Thankfully my husband finally agreed when I said "I don't know how to handle this. like literally, no idea". I guess that's when it clicked with him too that it's just somebody helping you. No big deal.
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Exactly. :) I will post tomorrow, but I am off to bed. Take care.
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My brother died. Be back when I am up to it.
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Sigh...im so so sorry. Dont feel obligated post until/if ever youre ready, but u know that.
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When I posted that he had died, I was on the road, and assumed he was already dead. In a minor miracle, he held on, and surprised me by not in fact being dead. I have been spending all my time at the hospital though, after driving across three states. Thank you for your good wishes.
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Oh. My. Gosh.

Thats incredible. Im so so happy for you guys...
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I was at home at my parent's house for the week with only a phone and no computer to type posts on. I just got back home tonight, and I am to tired to start posting. I will try to get back into it in the next day or so. Thank you so much for your patience.
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No worries, I was at my mom's this weekend and we had a big storm yesterday so I've been out of power until recently.
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You seem rushed for some reason. I think it's that you keep apologizing lol

You DO know that if you need to back off writing for a while it's cool, right? You have a lot going on, and I'd rather you be doing this because you enjoy it than out of obligation. Plus I know our rp responses are a little longer than some of your others, which means it takes more time and thought...I"m just saying no worries. That's all :) And I hope you still like the rp, I know it's been pretty chill.
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I am still in, but I will try to take it easy and post when I am ready. Thank you for understanding. The truth is though, that I enjoy our RP more than the others which do not require much thought on my part.
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Good! glad to hear it :)
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Thank you for being patient. I will try to post tomorrow morning, but right now I am off to bed. It has been a busy few days.
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I will probably post tomorrow morning. I apologize for the delay. Things have been a bit busy here. OOPS- Double post. I did not realize that the first one actually posted.
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