Dang, I am sorry to hear about the luck on those roleplays, dude. I won't let this one die! At least not for a long while! IRL stuff just can't be helped, though. I also use Discord for most of my other communications but prefer to keep my rp stuff separate, just so when I got to read and write, I am not distracted by my friends and whatnot. I just can never seem to get into rp on Discord anyway, most groups are massive community rps where I feel overwhelmed and the limit is rough like you said.
I'll try to get a reply out soon. I am sorry I am so slow.