hello!! welcome to my interest check! so glad you could stop by, please take a look and see if anything strikes your fancy :3

what i'm looking for:

- romance please. i kinda need for there to be a strong romantic flavor between the main characters. there can (hopefully WILL) be other stuff happening, there could even be more than two characters (i enjoy playing more than one but don't expect it of you!) but i need my lovey dovey mushy gushy ooey gooey goodness 😭 even if there is drama and tension, there has GOT to be tenderness and affection as well.

- smut is purely optional, i can take it or leave it.

- the main characters can be whatever gender(s) suit your fancy, in that department i'm not at all picky! i do have a SLIGHT preference for playing female right now, if you're wondering, but that's very slight, may change, and i am always happy to play male or nb or trans or what have you! (the only genders i stay away from are ones characterized by fetishized terms, i.e. "futa". it's just not my vibe. i play my characters as real as i can, and i'm not here for overly porny setups and disrespectful caricatures of trans/queer people.)

- substance, heart, drama, emotion. more than just horny nonsense (horny nonsense is welcome too though lmao). i want the RP to take on a life of its own, and to keep us coming back even after the initial excitement has faded. i'm not the strongest at crafting grand plots and schemes, but i like to think i do well bouncing ideas around with a partner to mutually create something worthwhile. i also generally prefer RPs that are more character-driven in nature, i'll get bored fast with stuff that's mostly action.

- i'm happy to write in a lot of different genres and settings! Victorian-era, Regency, Old West, and contemporary are my favorites, i guess? i'll have a few points below about the ones i'm not looking for right now.

- longer responses. i'd describe my "sweet spot" as being roughly 4 paragraphs OR MORE, potentially a lot more if i'm feeling inspired. i will lose interest quickly if our replies are only a couple sentences long. definitely no need to pad for the sake of padding of course, i just like to write about my character's internal world and experience, and sometimes do detailed scenery and appearance descriptions, and would love for my partner to do the same :3


what i'm NOT looking for:

  • NO smut-only plots
  • NO post-apocalyptic settings (especially zombies), fandom anything, superhero anything, enemies to lovers/hatemance, horror-oriented plots, zany madcap shenanigans with no grounding or substance.
  • NO OOC flirting or IRL relationships (friendship, frequent OOC chatter, and playfulness are all welcome tho!)
  • NO hate, bigotry, nastiness, etc. i identify as nonbinary and i think you can infer my politics from there; DNI if you can't deal and i'll do the same.
  • NO discord at this time, sorry! this may change eventually but for now, i am keeping things on-site.


adding a wordbank for funsies, just different things i like to include and explore:

heavy themes - mature themes - power imbalances - religious themes - illness and disability - prejudice and judgment - social outcasts, people on the fringes - successful on the outside, utter wreck on the inside - mental illness - size difference - age difference - turbulent affairs - passion - high emotion in general - addiction and substance use/abuse - fluff in good measure to balance out all the heavy shit lmao

as for ons and offs, we can discuss that privately if our RP is to include mature scenes!

i could do a list of settings and pairings, but i feel like this is getting long and no one is going to read it lmao. i may add that later tho. the only thing i feel i'm "craving" right now is something set in the Regency or Victorian era, and/or playing as a widow in any era (idk why lmfao i do have a bit of a plot bunny for a plot set in the 1800s, MC is a widow and YC is some kind of shut-in that she falls for) but i'm really open to almost anything.

a little about me: i'm in my late 30s, femme-leaning AFAB nonbinary, plant geek, home cook, cosmic jellyfish fairy. if you think we'd vibe, please send me a PM (preferably with some details/info about you/what you're seeking/what caught your eye) and we can go from there!