That's alright, I understand, haha. Sooo... people come here to read and write stories. It's not like tiktok, you can't scream into the abyss here. If tiktok is a city, this website is a little village on a remote island. Before you post something very personal about yourself, first think, 'do I want the village to read this?' From what I've read so far, I reckon for you 9 times out of 10, just don't post it, haha.
On your posts, do you see the edit button? Every post has it. I think you should have a look at some of your previous posts and edit out anything that's a little too personal for the village to know so soon. Lemme know when you've done it!