For some reason with PMs on Discord, I tend to jump randomly from topic to topic... it's honestly surprising when people actually keep up with my various topics.
I coudn't give three shits about what the image someone uses to "describe" their character's appearance looks like. The written description is more important in my opinion. The image is merely the parsley on your fancy dinner plate--fluff.
I used to chew on the collar of my T-shirts in high stress gaming situations, got it under control now but a lot of T-Shirts have fallen already
@Winter Star12 How dark are we talking?
You can do bleach, but if you've never dyed your hair before, I recommend a professional.
Furthermore if you wanted to do it at home, bleach what you want and let the bleach settle into your hair for about a week before applying color. Also don't bleach your roots.