Calder Frey, Lord of the Crossing, the Crippler, Black Calder, Cold CalderAge: 32
Appearance: 
Lord Calder is stout for a Frey, broad of shoulder though less so than his younger sibling. He has brown hair, with bristly brooding brows and keen eyes.
Personality:Born a Frey, and raised at the lofty court of Daeron II the Good, he has developed a disdain for the poorest farmers, the paupers. He is a staunch believer of the nobility lording over the commoners. The lowborn people should recognise their betters and work the land, adhere to their duty. He is a proud man, and believes himself the superior to many.
Lord Calder is a mediocre fighter, able to stand his own in personal combat but preferring not to. Though he does not lack courage, he sees his mind as his most powerful weapon. Unlike his kinsmen Franklyn and Addam, he is no warrior but has specialised in the practical aspects of warfare. On several accounts, Calder has displayed an aptitude for tactics and planning, relying on knowledge, surprise, timing and opportunism to gain victory.
He has a mind for organisation and politics, and always tries to gain the advantage and negotiate or strike from a position of strength. Cunning, Calder uses his strengths in a versatile way, carefully guards his weaknesses and exploits those of his enemies. The game is always being played, he believes, it is just a matter of playing your cards right.
Biography:Growing up in the Twins meant growing up among a host of ruthlessly ambitious family members. As the firstborn to the late Lord Aemon Frey, Calder was groomed from an early age to inherit the Twins and become the head of the powerful Frey family. With that responsibility came the duty to be ever vigilant of the enemies of House Frey, and they are several.
Up until the age of ten, Calder spent his time at the Twins, studying history and poetry mostly. When he went away as a ward to the Eyrie and later King’s Landing, his studies turned to more practical fields, Calder taking an interest in engineering and logistics.
Though Calder spent sufficient time practicing his skills with weapons, he was not particularly a prodigy, unlike his younger brother Franklyn or his cousin Addam. While he displayed reasonable aptitude for swinging a sword, Calder’s weapon of choice is a single-handed war hammer, better known as a horseman’s pick.
Calder squired first for Ser Harry Haigh, but it became clear that this was not a beneficial position, for while he may have been a knight of some renown in his heyday, Harry, washed up in the capital, had turned to the drink. Calder thought him a useless half-wit, and wrote to his father that he would choose and negotiate his own commission. After being turned down by Ser Lyonel Baratheon, the Laughing Storm, in a rather humiliating exchange, young Calder Frey began to see the world for what is really was, putting behind him the ideas and fancies he had obsessed about in his childhood years.
A lad of fifteen, Calder became the squire to a young Ser Humfrey Hardyng of the Vale. House Hardyng was sworn to House Waynwood from Ironoaks, and so it was a good thing Ser Humfrey was intent on making a name for himself as a tourney knight, for the Waynwoods were notoriously obsessed with ceremony, leading to more than one incident when Calder and Humfrey attended.
For the next two years, Calder followed Ser Humfrey as he went from fair to fair, from tilt to tilt. During this time he learned a lot of how politics influenced practically everything, as well as how to acquaint himself with people born high and low.
When travelling from the Twins to the Vale through the Mountains of the Moon, Ser Humfrey and Calder were beset by a group of Mountain clansmen. It was in this skirmish that he earned his spurs, Ser Humfrey knighting him for it at a gathering in the Eyrie.
Later on, Ser Calder distinguished himself against raiding Crannogmen in a few swift engagements. Ever since, the men of the marsh think twice before staging incursions into the Freylands. During one of these skirmishes, Calder knighted his younger brother Franklyn who then set out with their cousin Addam to break lances at tourneys.
Calder spent some time travelling around the Riverlands and visited Oldtown and Lannisport before returning to King’s Landing. For a time he resided there, and worked in the port’s customs administration. When the Blackfyre Rebellion broke out, he even functioned as a temporary advisor to the Small Council to organise and oversee the expansion and modernisation of the city’s defences. He helped prepare the city and Red Keep for a siege, though that proved unnecessary.
However, Lord Aemon Frey called him home to protect the Twins and Freylands, for when war engulfs Westeros, the Riverlands burn. Calder secured supplies and led expeditions to pick off looters, deserters and bandits, while his father stayed at the Twins due to prolonged sickness.
Lord Aemon was careful not to declare for any one in particular, only sending a token force of two hundred footmen and fifty knights to Riverrun to reinforce his liege lord.
After Lord Aemon’s death in 199 AL, the Crossing passed to Calder without much incident. Lord Calder earned his nickname, the Crippler, due to his treatment of unruly subjects. Some runaway serfs had been caught, causing Calder to utter a well-known epigram at the Twins. “Give peasants half a chance, and like pigs in the forest or sheep on a mountainside, might all too easily stray. Rein them in and cull them on time.” The serfs lost their feet so they could never run away again. From then, seeing his initial mild approach did not work, Lord Calder Frey adopted a stern and rigid mode of punishment.
Thieves lose hands, runaways lose feet, muderers lose heads, rapists lose… Lord Calder’s harsh but fair justice is non-discriminative. Ser Harry Haigh, the first knight he squired for, had manhandled a farmer’s daughter and was subsequently offered the choice between taking the black or of being robbed of his manhood.