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5 yrs ago
Current *Sets down Halloween cake for everyone and heads back off into the abyss.*
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5 yrs ago
*Places down a rhubarb crumble for everyone and heads back to her projects.*
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5 yrs ago
My biological father passed away last night of a heart attack... I'm not even sure how to process everything I'm feeling right now.
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5 yrs ago
Lol Never lie to your massage therapist about how much you drank before a massage. I'll know within 20 minutes if you lied. Fun time at work. X.X
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5 yrs ago
*Cuts up banana cream pie for the status bar.* I think we could all use this... Lol.
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XD Key word, dear. 'Kind of'. Exactly why I wrote 'kind of' went off topic. Hehe.
Also; We kind of went off topic. We went from 'issues we're having with partners or possible partners' to 'how we accept people into RPs'.
I know I asked 'how you deal with it', but I think we drifted pretty deep. Lol.

But I think having this thread helped me find some decent partners. I have four new ones going and it's very enjoyable so far. A little ranting to forget the past really helps open the gates for better things to come. =D

NOW HAVE A MUFFIN! =D
o-o... I make awesome blueberry muffins. LET'S ALL HAVE SOME! -Holds out muffin basket.-
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Eh, people, let's keep egos in check. Agree to disagree, please. Peace in the thread...

I don't think I would reject for no reason, but sometimes if I'm 'unsure', I will wait a few hours to reply. This also helps me find the impatient people. You know, those people who PM again in under 2 hours going; "You could have just said no!"

And I reply; "I am multitasking right now and was contemplating RPing with you, but you clearly are impatient and I don't feel we'll work well together."

Honestly, I give people 24 hours to reply to me if I message them first. If I do not get a reply, I assume they had no interest. If they message back later, yey, if not, again, I accept they didn't care. Sure, it is polite to say 'no thank you', but sometimes...like when people break rules in their first post to you by asking for things you don't want, it's hard to say 'no'. They often come back with "Why not?". Then you have to tell them and they get all mad that YOU don't like that THEY ignored the rules...

I remember when I had a group chat. Very big. I ran the screening like I ran the RP (very organized style due it being an organization, war, military style RP). They had to fill out bios. I would reject any female bios that focused more on talking about how 'hot' their character was instead of why they were in the organization to begin with. As the rules stated, it's a 'war' roleplay, not a beauty pageant.
I'd also tell people I wouldn't accept it if the 'reason' they came to the organization wasn't a decent enough reason.
People who cared and REALLY wanted in would rewrite and understand. Those who were children, impatient, or just immature, would vanish or become brats and be mad at me.
All good points. o-o
The ranting does help, even if you just delete it. I often rant with friend. =D
It really is amazing how people can be so lazy (and I call it lazy because the main excuse I get is; "You're thread was too long! I shouldn't have to read all that." Maybe but you could at least read the numbered rules if nothing else...) is that when you call them out on it, even if politely, they get mad at YOU, as if YOU did something wrong...
It's like; "I'm sorry I wrote a thread questing for something and you didn't have the ability to read the rules, but instead message me showing a blatant disregard to the work I put into my thread to find a partner who likes what I like. I am SO sorry to have you waste my time by ignoring the rules and trying to get me to do stuff I CLEARLY stated I didn't want to do! MY APOLOGIES!"
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