@The Harbinger of Ferocity
Alright here's my analysis.
Your point is that we're disassociated with real life because of the nature of the internet and toxicity breeds because it is allowed too. Yourself being a discord mod and friends with a lot of guild mods I find it funny that you say blacklisting and banning used to be common place. It still fucking should be but you guys don't do it anyways, so the onus of toxicity is on yourself from your own definition.
So what I'm gathering is it's the mods fault for not policing it, and you're a mod sooo xD