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I hate to say it...

@BrokenPromise...Ok first off, I have a multitude of interest checks, many that include far more information... Feel free to scroll back through all my posts if you want. I would spend time trying to make them look nice, but I would get the same feedback/response as I do now. So I started to just do a basic interest check to just put my ideas out there and not waste my time. I do not appreciate you pointing a finger at me and essentially saying it's my fault. Yes, I am being somewhat pessimistic, but I didn't call out anyone for any specific reason, and everyone else who has responded has just made comments about the issue in general and not called me out for something specific I did.

I have messaged MANY people to see if they would want to be my partner for 1x1 based off their IC. And trust me, I've had some amazing 1x1 RPs on this site, some that lasted for months and had well over 100 replies. I have partners who tell me my writing is great. I also have partners who've ghosted me. Not everyone meshes and that's fine. I literally never delete a single PM, so I know exactly how many RPs I've been in. So it's definitely not on me for lack of trying.

I think @BenG85 said if best- the site is active, but it seems there is a lack of new content. And I know I'm a hypocrite since I prefer to do a lot of the same thing, but I have been doing my best to branch out and try new things.

Perhaps my wording in my initial post wasn't the best, but I still stand by my point that written RP is shifting and that's fine, so I guess I'll just have to accept that perhaps my time is coming to end, at least until I find somewhere where my style is the preferred way.

I hate to say it...

I do want to point out, I've been feeling this way for quite some time. I am very much aware that this time of year is crazy hectic to for everyone, myself included. And I never fault a partner for having a busy life off this site. I always say real life comes first. My point I'm trying to make is that I guess the style I enjoy RPing most isn't what is "in" right now, and that's fine. I am just am old millennial stuck in their ways.

Oh and to add on to that. The point that younger generations are discovering written RP is amazing, but as an adult, it doesn't feel ethical to RP with people under a certain age (regardless if the material is adult themed or not) so I do realize that probably limits my options as well.

I hate to say it...

So essentially it seems the style of RP I enjoy most is dying. Ok, well guess that's the way the cookie crumbles. 🤷‍♀️

I hate to say it...

But am I the only one who feels like this site is slowly dying? Other than a couple 1x1 RPs I've got going, it just seems so hard to get any new ones going, or to keep new ones alive (which could be a me problem). Even the interest checks seem very barren and not updated that often. I remember when I first joined, your IC would barely last on the first page for more than a day.

Is written RP dying in general? Or are people really just shifting to other mediums like discord and what not. I know I'm on the older-ish side of things, so maybe it's old fashion of me to want to stick to one site.

Does anyone else feel this way or just me?

Ok not my usual thing (18+)

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Ok not my usual thing (18+)

one final bump for now

Ok not my usual thing (18+)

Boop- kinda looking for a quick start on this

Ok not my usual thing (18+)

Poke

Ok not my usual thing (18+)

Ok this is going to be a very simple interest check and straight to the point.

First, this is an 18+ (21+ preferred) zone. That's the most important rule.

So essentially I am looking for smut. I am not normally a smut writer- it will be incorporated into my RPs if it makes sense to the plot, but it's not the main focus. And even when it's incorporated, I will do fade to black a lot as well. However, I have been having an intense craving for fxf smut these past few weeks.

So basically here's what I'm looking for:

-FxF smut (I will happily go over my preferences for things and how dark I'm willing to go in DMs). I don't specifically have any plots in mind, but I am always down for a modern/SOL plot, perhaps with a bit of fantasy thrown in. Or something a bit more fantasy/fairy tale-esc.

-A partner willing to take on a more top/dominant role, though I am ok if we switch occasionally too, depending on the plot.

-A partner who writes mid casual-advance (which to me means around 3-6 detailed paragraphs on average, but quality over quantity is my motto)

-A partner who is understanding that smut is not my forte and it's out of the ordinary for me. And understand I will need plot/story in between to avoid getting burnt out.

-A partner who will try to post daily (multiple times would be nice too but not necessary), however understands that I may need to take a break here and there when I'm just not feeling it. And obviously I won't hold it against you if you can't post everyday. Just keep me in the loop.

-A partner who won't ghost. I would much rather be told the truth that you've lost interest rather than be ghosted. And I will do the same for you. It is nothing personal, not everyone clicks.

So if you are interested, DM me! We can totally come up with a plot together and figure out what we both enjoy and what not.

Simple request.

I want to do a MxM RP where I play a timid, shy bottom and someone plays a big, buff top.

I know I'm using the terms top/bottom, but this isn't a smut RP. Yes sexual scenes can occur if it goes with the flow of the story. So for that reason: 18+. Looking for an advanced writing partner. I have no plot, no setting, no genre in mind. I just want to play characters like that. We can build something together.

Please and thank you.