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Male, 33 years old. (I'm even more dead than before.)

Likes (other than writing and roleplaying): I'm into all genres of music. I love to cook. I love the outdoors, and walking through the park near my house. (Yes, really.) I read a lot of thriller/mystery novels. And I usually watch seasonal anime. (Or cooking shows. Because Western Media provides even fewer things that are worth watching.)

But as for my many other neglected hobbies, I've played basically every sport. (Soccer and Bowling being my favorite of the bunch.) And I'm trying to play more video games. (Going through my never-ending Steam library.) Plus, I've dabbled in making electronic & metal music, and I used to play a number of instruments. (Guitar, French Horn, etc.)

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Will attempt to work on post now, I was in an all night gaming session...so I sort of lost track of time. :P If I can't post something in a couple hours, will be early tm.
@Shiny Keldeo Posted the characters like I said I would. Will likely reply to RP tomorrow. Thank you for going through them in the PM's with me. Appreciate it.




@Buddha Perhaps then you should make a request of the mods since they are here and active to move this topic to the Suggestions forum and pin it. As well as linking the posts where people are spatting with each other to be deleted from the thread. People need to report more, so let us start here with getting the bickering posts out the topic and this moved to a place and pinned where it will be more likely seen and less likely forgotten in the long run.


From what I've heard, Mods can't delete posts...I wouldn't care if things "seen as bickering" on my end would be cleared for the overall benefit of users. (though I again argue that I was explaining the rules.)

But the fact single posts can't be deleted, is another problem that makes it a lot harder for moderators to do their "clean up" that is there only job...Which once again, goes back to why and who could give them the power to do that? And that itself being crucial for progress...
Tough, I guess. I've seen the Moderators say, "There's no delay in Moderator response to reported issues that we've seen." And then I've seen nothing significant to argue to the opposite of that. Some people say things aren't getting reported? Not sure how that weight falls on staff. It's not as if they do anything to actively discourage reporting.


You're asking for proof? I mean...I have it... If you really want a PM sent your way? <.<

If nobody wants to take the blame for anything wrong going on...(and granted, it's not anyONE person's fault.) But admit that there's problems...and a lot of the discussion is about how Mahz essentially NEEDS to come back for anything to be solved. I don't know how "and he isn't responsible for literally anything either." I don't know how both statements can be true at the same time...

Not being responded to...and being told "we don't even have enough evidence to warn the person to stop or you will get banned." with harassment...I'm sorry, but that's pretty clear discouragement. Especially when you see who actually gets the ban hammer and it is strangely similar to what you reported.
Why?


...As in why should you participate in the community at large? I don't think I should have to explain why that would at least be preferred...since people already brought it up. But for starters it would solve your "why does no one PM me?" problem.

I think I just have a clear divide of people explaining "mods that want to do there job" = bad. So therefore the opposite is better thing, completely do not understand why that's a thing...

No all moderators don't have to babysit...but I think a lot of this stuff is being taken personally. And hopefully no one is trying to be personal.

But hell here's a legit suggestion that could solve nearly 99% of problems...

Create a sub-forum for literally ONE of the forum's. Off topic/spam. It's where 99% percent of problems take place and hell seemingly where the spam-bots most often go to. If you don't want any of the responsibility to look through things, then give someone else whose active that specific job to do so...
@SleepingSilence Didn't I request like, yesterday, not to do this stuff in here? Think it was a pretty straight forward request.


Don't shoot the messenger. I was attempting to tell someone else to stop. But I'm sorry for getting involved. Though the "shooting the messenger" thing is exactly what happens every single damn time I tell users to not harass other users and I'm basically one of the few members I've seen do it...that doesn't help stop the people breaking rules either...Exactly why moderators need to insert more authority in situations.
I'm not suggesting that other people take up the mantle of detective in our stead and go trawl through the forums looking for issues to report. My stance is that the people directly involved with any given incident shoulder the responsibility of bringing it to our attention.

There have been people in this thread who have shared the sentiment that things don't get looked at when they report them to us. That's regrettable, but it raises the question of when these things took place and to who they were reported, because -- and this is the second time I'm saying this -- I barely receive any reports. There has been one incident that was PM'd to me in the last three months, and my colleagues picked that up and dealt with it within 24 hours. So either these sentiments are outdated, possibly stemming from a different moderator crew than the one we have now, or people haven't really been trying to bring things to our attention.


We trust the userbase to self-police most of the time. We're janitors, not police officers. That said, what can't be solved by reprimanding each other and reminding offenders of what the rules are.


Forgive me, but that statement really sounds like it. If you aren't the police and just the clean up crew. You are sort of pushing the community to police their own forum, which nobody does...(actually maybe this is off topic. But I've literally been banned from a (different) forum for sending a private message to someone breaking the rules and telling them to please knock it off.) Because apparently THAT was harassment.

But as it comes from personal requests and receiving low amounts, well the only answer I have is at the time...the only mod I saw actively participating in the chatbox was the one I went to...because the others were nowhere to be found. Another reason I mentioned, it isn't good to appear inactive vs proactive. But I can also tell you, it is still a problem with the current line up. It's not even been that long ago, where supposed mod warnings have been outright ignored, and the repeated harassment offenders did not receive any punishment. It feels bizarre to explain that there is nuisance and say people aren't banned for simple actions. (you didn't do that mind.) When like I said, the bans that have occurred seem to be the exact guildlines to how those people were banned on the spot. What's the difference that got those people banned and not the others? Beside the direct connection with moderators themselves? That's a legit question I hope I can get an answer too...

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