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Response to Guess Who's reason for not posting [+]

Not sure if you need to be hearing this right now, but I'm going to share this with you because I would've done the same to my younger self. If I had the means to talk to my younger self, that is. It's really stupid and cliche to say, but there are other guys and gals out there for you boss. I went through five relationships before I ended up with the woman of my nightmares. Each of them ended up in different nasty ways. Each break up, my fault or not, was painful. It happens. You're young. You have plenty of time to find someone else. It may be hard to think of finding someone else so freshly wounded, but you will. Cry your tears, beat your chest, and scream at the wall. Let it all out, then pick yourself back up and quit your snivelling so you can get back to enjoying your life. If you need anyone to talk to, you can rest assured in confiding in this crusty salt-dog.

If it helps comfort you any, I've been together with my wife for 8 years. Happily married for 3+ years. I'm no expert, but I'm not talking out of my ass. My wife and I have been through a lot of shit together, all sorts of Hells and High Waters. You'll find your co-op partner some other day.

guys i don't think harmony fits in with all the other emotions

-Awesome-

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Response to Guess Who's reason for not posting [+]

Not sure if you need to be hearing this right now, but I'm going to share this with you because I would've done the same to my younger self. If I had the means to talk to my younger self, that is. It's really stupid and cliche to say, but there are other guys and gals out there for you boss. I went through five relationships before I ended up with the woman of my nightmares. Each of them ended up in different nasty ways. Each break up, my fault or not, was painful. It happens. You're young. You have plenty of time to find someone else. It may be hard to think of finding someone else so freshly wounded, but you will. Cry your tears, beat your chest, and scream at the wall. Let it all out, then pick yourself back up and quit your snivelling so you can get back to enjoying your life. If you need anyone to talk to, you can rest assured in confiding in this crusty salt-dog.

If it helps comfort you any, I've been together with my wife for 8 years. Happily married for 3+ years. I'm no expert, but I'm not talking out of my ass. My wife and I have been through a lot of shit together, all sorts of Hells and High Waters. You'll find your co-op partner some other day.

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Thanks harine, I appreciate it.

My Hider [+]

Most people have been giving me the whole "you'll find someone else" talk too, but that's it. All they have to say are those four words, so it helps knowing that you at least backed that up with some evidence. Honestly, only one person, my dad, has even mentioned the possibility of getting her back and while I'll give it a shot I'm not exactly hopeful it will work considering the way she did it. Again though, thank you for the words of encouragement.

Advice from a jaded, broken man [+]

You're young. I'm young. Hari's still decently young. You'll be okay, my friend. Not today. Not tomorrow. But someday, you will look back and wonder why you worried. You will. I do now. But I'd like to recommend something: look up some sad music, and cry your eyes out. If you ever end up like me, you will miss being able to do so. I wish I were exaggerating. Once you're done crying, make a decision on what you're gonna do. Me, I'm basically not putting effort into getting into a relationship. If I meet someone who's cool, alright I guess. I'm not looking for one, I'm not going to bars or trying to meet a friend of a friend or something. And if you ever need a reminder to keep your god damned chin up, just read my fucking signature. Got it?

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are we done listening to how things were back in your day, gramps

In all seriousness, Who, that sucks. And it's perfectly understandable that you wanted to take a little time before you came back to things. Welcome back.

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Thank you. Both of you. And, coincidentally, I actually already have been doing what you suggested MMM. Have a playlist of around 22 songs that's slowly growing (which also made me realize that I don't have any music by Boston or Chicago on my phone and I need to fix that the next time I get some cash).

CAN WE STOP MAKING FUN OF MY AGE?!

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This may come off as harsh Guess Who [+]

Hey, if it works out and the two of you are happy again, great. If not, then you're better off not wasting your time. Life's a crapshoot, a gamble. In my experience, I found that it was better to let toxic relationships go and to die off. Many a person whom I at one time considered a cherished part of my life only served as contributors to my pain and dragged me down.

If you're skeptical having her back would work out, if you're not 100% certain...Don't bother. There's always someone better. Someone who understands you more. Someone kinder and sweeter.

And with better boobies and butts.
Mmm....
Butts.

All kidding aside, never 'settle'. Never be unsure. Be certain. Demand more from life, and you'll find the one. Or two...Or seven. Hell, I don't judge if you're into polygamy. Whatever.

Seriously tho? Dat cutie pie face. Mmm...and those tattoos.

CAN WE STOP MAKING FUN OF MY AGE?!

;_;

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no, no we can't

i develop cases of joke material for everyone i meet and this is the only thing i have on you i won't give it up

Thank you. Both of you. And, coincidentally, I actually already have been doing what you suggested MMM. Have a playlist of around 22 songs that's slowly growing (which also made me realize that I don't have any music by Boston or Chicago on my phone and I need to fix that the next time I get some cash).