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My boss quit.

Bonus fact: I might be pregnant.
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@Skwint I'd like to say thank you for stepping up and being that childs father.



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@Luna_Maria Her and I broke up at the beginning of this year, so relatively recent.

@HaleyTheRandom A lot of people gave me props for caring for another man's child, but I never thought myself any extra special for doing so. I got a lot of "Not a lot of guys would do something like that". That statement made me more disappointed than anything. Where have all the good men gone? Are we really that much of a minority?
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@HaleyTheRandom A lot of people gave me props for caring for another man's child, but I never thought myself any extra special for doing so. I got a lot of "Not a lot of guys would do something like that". That statement made me more disappointed than anything. Where have all the good men gone? Are we really that much of a minority?


Well... It's not that all the good guys are gone. It's just that there are a lot more bad than there is good, just like with the rest of the world.

As a person who's biological father didn't want her, I really appreciate what you did. I also hope that maybe you get to reconnect with that child some day.

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@HaleyTheRandom He probably doesn't even remember me anymore. He was only 10 months old when I left. Even if I did see him again I would be a stranger. That's what hurts me the most.

I just don't want him to get messed up. His mother is kinda crazy and fights with her current boyfriend a lot. I fear it will get to the point where she gets evicted because of all the trouble she causes and the kid will get thrown into foster care because she would be unable to properly care for him. What would that do to him? His father doesn't want him and is mother is completely out of her mind. I often worry what will become of him.

None of this should even be my problem. I shouldn't have to worry about any of this, and yet I do. I can't help it. After 10 months you get kind of attached. At least I was Daddy for a little while.
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I love Halloween for one big reason: I love being a troll IRL. I go through the Halloween aisles in stores and think to myself, "How can I use this to make someone require a change of pants?"

Which reminds me, I should see if my stepdad knows anyone with a ghillie suit I can borrow on Halloween.
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I have raised four children...current ages 13, 12, 10 and 8...Still working on them. ;) My 10 year old will be 11 next week. We had a fifth child about five and a half years ago. She lived for 57 minutes.
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Y'all gotta drop it with the sad shit tonight.

@HaleyTheRandom He probably doesn't even remember me anymore. He was only 10 months old when I left. Even if I did see him again I would be a stranger. That's what hurts me the most.

I just don't want him to get messed up. His mother is kinda crazy and fights with her current boyfriend a lot. I fear it will get to the point where she gets evicted because of all the trouble she causes and the kid will get thrown into foster care because she would be unable to properly care for him. What would that do to him? His father doesn't want him and is mother is completely out of her mind. I often worry what will become of him.

None of this should even be my problem. I shouldn't have to worry about any of this, and yet I do. I can't help it. After 10 months you get kind of attached. At least I was Daddy for a little while.


I'm not entirely sure what to say here. The only comfort that I can offer you is scientifically based. Though it is said humans do not start gaining memories until the age of two, cognitive development starts way before that. The way you describe this childs mother, she wasn't/isn't exactly the most caring. Because of you, that child knows what love feels like. It will help him not to become a psychopath later on in life. That's my really messed up way of trying to turn this conversation to a lighter note. Don't @ me.

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Because you said not to.

Because next random fact: I'm an asshole.

But I do appreciate your kind words.
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@HaleyTheRandom

Because you said not to.

Because next random fact: I'm an asshole.

But I do appreciate your kind words.


No problem. xD Assholes are my kinda people.

Actual fact though: I love nighttime.
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I also love nighttime. That's why I'm up until 5 a.m. and sleep until 2 p.m.
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@Skwint how old are you? what do you do?
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@Luna_Maria

I turned 23 this month and am between jobs at the moment.
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@Skwint what types of women do you like??
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@Skwint how old are you? what do you do?


@Luna_Maria

I turned 23 this month and am between jobs at the moment.


@Skwint what types of women do you like??


I see where this is going.

Run.
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@Luna_Maria

I'm not quite sure. I was in a relationship with a crazy bitch that lasted 6 years and then was with a really nice girl, but that only lasted 2 months. So, I don't really know.

@HaleyTheRandom Pssh. *dismissive hand wave* I'm sure it's fine.
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@HaleyTheRandom

ok, i'll lay off. jeez. I was just asking him his preferences to see if... well

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haley doesn't want me to ask anymore questions, so I won't
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@HaleyTheRandom

ok, i'll lay off. jeez. I was just asking him his preferences to see if... well


Haha. Don't worry about it. I'm only joking.

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I don't mind. Something like that is probably more of a pm thing though.
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