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7 hrs ago
Current You could go to ask someone for a bucket of hot water and end up calling their mother a flaming bitch instead? I am, unfortunately, speaking from experience.
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12 days ago
Update on the new job: I've had sushi for dinner 10 out of the last 13 nights I have worked. This shit is glorious.
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16 days ago
Mods are working on the bot problem. I'm on a double today at work, so haven't been able to keep as much of an eye on things a I would like.
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3 mos ago
The roleplay is in you. You are the roleplay. Be the roleplay you wish to see.
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3 mos ago
Sorry guys, I forgot to lock the gate last night.
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Haley ★ 26 ★ Taurus ★ EST ★ Casual Level Group Writer


Welcome fellow writer. I go by many names, but you can call me Haley or pretty much anything else. I stick to causal level groups here on the forum. I have a soft spot for thunderstorms, dark humor, strong coffee, animals, pretty words, feminine rage, mythologies, and all things that go 'bump' in the night. I've lived in the same small southern Appalachian town my whole life, and aim to travel one day. I'm open to the occasional random conversation, but please do not message me asking to write one-on-one; it's simply not something I do these days.

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@ayzrules I missed the post about the assassination.. was it mentioned somewhere?
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@King Tai Haha. Makes sense.

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@HaleyTheRandom
Don't worry, I understand. I wasn't trying to defend myself there or anything... I just can't switch off (like I keep saying to people); I feel like I need to go into philosopher mode every time I see the smallest detail that I have two cents to give about, so that was more me speaking in general. I'm not good at relaxing. I probably seem composed to everyone... cool as ice, but inside I'm like a volcano that's always on the edge of erupting.

We'll see... I'm thinking.


Hey, no problem.

@HaleyTheRandom
Alright, well I've done all I can at this point (headache has progressed to the point where I can't see), so I'll need to see what I have to work with once I get up...

Even when I was writing that post in the role-playing discussion forum, I could barely think straight or see the screen in front of me, so I don't even really know how helpful I was... but I definitely knew what it was like to be in their shoes, dealing with people who were too full of themselves to give a "no name" a chance.

Part of me wonders if I should've just tossed up my status message (since it seemed to have made several people realize that Oliver's post existed) and gone to bed, since I might not have be helpful in my state, but meh... I don't believe in regrets. I felt I needed to make a point that even if social maturity is important in a role-playing community there are definitely plenty of long-standing members of communities who have an entitled sense of prestige.

I haven't been on this site for that long, so perhaps the problem isn't as major here and Oliver was being problematic for those GMs, but I didn't like the idea of seeing someone go through what I went through before... especially since in my case the GMs were definitely being assholes and an entire site dying due to them is further proof of that. Technically, my truly enriching role-play experiences were with a close circle of people who thought on a similar wavelength to me, so I have less experience role-play with a wider variety of people, but I'm a writer before I'm a role-player; I mostly role-play as a way to improve my writing. Besides, no matter what, telling someone to dumb themselves down or hold back their writing is never acceptable in my eyes. I actually willingly pulled out of the one role-play I had registered for on this site so far (I even got my character accepted, on my first try), simply because the direction of the role-play was going to be far too shallow for my tastes... I thrive on depth and detail; without them writing serves no meaning to the poet and philosopher in me.

Anyway, I'm probably rambling, so take care. I guess I'll be around in a few hours if all goes as planned.

Edit: ... and now I'm hungry. Life's a bitch, isn't it?


Hey, I liked your post.

Yes, yes it is.
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@CrazyShadowy No problem. Thanks for letting me know. ^.^
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If you're a dude, go up. Girl, go down. Pretty easy ^.^ @DriveEMOut Welcome to the dark side.
@McHaggis


Seriously. That post is beautiful. At first I was like... eh, and then as I read more and more of it.. holy crap. I mean, can this be archived?! I know this probably makes zero sense, and me expressing my love for your post may be weird, but I loved the way you worded this, especially the part about choosing which players to and not to accept as a GM. Personally, I learned a few things myself just by reading your post.
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