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11 days ago
Please tell me no one is using AI to write.
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1 mo ago
I'm a pretty good writer and former site staff; I still deal with imposter syndrome every time I log on. You're definitely not alone. And t's worth trying anyway.
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1 mo ago
Don't worry, D3AD ST4R, most of us feel like that. <33
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1 mo ago
Pretty sure you just described a third of the world's population. Welcome!
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1 mo ago
I just started watching it.
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In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
I know I missed one or two but that's all the time I have for now.

I'll respond to any I missed later.

Anything you wanna add? PM me.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
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One last question, then.

In what section of the site do you think would be most appropriate for this? Off-topic, support or RPdiscussion?


Off Topic.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
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But it isn't, nothing about those posts was bad faith. Having feefees hurt doesn't qualify something for the label of bad faith. I might have trolled you (no memory of it lol, feel free to provide examples) but even if that is the case, that only seems to show the moderation is taking personal grievances into account for how they run the site which is plainly toxic


@Jerkchicken

Yes I am and yes it does.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
Kindly don't delete my posts either. Sadly I didn't get the posts around it, but as you can see, it actually was posted here.

Ruby, I love this site. I love the people I write with and I want it to succeed. I've never personally spoken to you, so it's not as if I'm here for a personal vendetta. I'm not here in bad faith, but you've deleted my post anyway. The solution I proposed was far from radical; in fact, I think it would fix most of this issue. All any of us want is a little accountability and transparency.

Public discussion is necessary because it forces accountability. If mods or admins can't (or won't) stand by their actions in the public eye, then that gives the user base a reason to doubt the validity of those actions. That's why we're so suspicious of this "bring your issues to PMs" policy.


Kindly don't delete my posts either. Sadly I didn't get the posts around it, but as you can see, it actually was posted here.

Ruby, I love this site. I love the people I write with and I want it to succeed. I've never personally spoken to you, so it's not as if I'm here for a personal vendetta. I'm not here in bad faith, but you've deleted my post anyway. The solution I proposed was far from radical; in fact, I think it would fix most of this issue. All any of us want is a little accountability and transparency.

Public discussion is necessary because it forces accountability. If mods or admins can't (or won't) stand by their actions in the public eye, then that gives the user base a reason to doubt the validity of those actions. That's why we're so suspicious of this "bring your issues to PMs" policy.


Don't hijack my thread. Look at the OP and tell me what question you're asking. That's why you got deleted. That's why I'm gomma have to lock this thread soon.

Kindly don't delete my posts either. Sadly I didn't get the posts around it, but as you can see, it actually was posted here.

Ruby, I love this site. I love the people I write with and I want it to succeed. I've never personally spoken to you, so it's not as if I'm here for a personal vendetta. I'm not here in bad faith, but you've deleted my post anyway. The solution I proposed was far from radical; in fact, I think it would fix most of this issue. All any of us want is a little accountability and transparency.

Public discussion is necessary because it forces accountability. If mods or admins can't (or won't) stand by their actions in the public eye, then that gives the user base a reason to doubt the validity of those actions. That's why we're so suspicious of this "bring your issues to PMs" policy.


I'm just trying to keep this thread from getting hijacked. Was your post asking me a question? No? That's why it got deleted.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
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Okay but that's not what was discussed. The point of this site is roleplay, and nobody in question right now ever hurt those fundamentals. People went to the status bar because it seems other methods have failed (largely on account of being deleted for no reason lol) and it reaches the largest amount of people without shitting up IC. Banning people for OOC/Meta critique on the other hand is actually very damaging to the fundamental of the site: roleplay. There is evidently a lot more trolling from the people with ban privileges than the people without.

And pardon me but how does:

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or:

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or my personal favourite:

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qualify as good faith? To me it seems like most people were only following the tone set by this (and that's just the first page), and to remove posts for following the example set by moderation seems nonsensical at the very least.


That's me reacting to bad faith with the same. You don't get to take shots at me without risking getting some eye rolls. You've trolled me for literally years. This isn't new to you.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
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What so you mean "be subject to the site rules" in this context? I have been trying my best to avoid breaking them all up to now, so this reads as if I'm doing something wrong by default. Are you really allowing me to post the thread, or are you simply saying "go ahead and try it because I will delete it anyway?"

I don't want to put any words in your mouth, but I do get the feeling it is the latter. I apologise if I assume incorrectly, but I do wish to confirm you are not out to shut down this hypothetical thread the moment I post it.


Every single person who has posted something personal about me today doesn't know me and has never spoken to me outside of site staff. If even then. So...at this point all I can do is let the vocal and angry vent. They'll assume what they want. About me in particular.

Post it. If it gets personal and petty/starts breaking site rules a site mod will close it or delete it or both. I have a RL I desperately need to get back to so it probably won't be me. But understand I have people asking me to stop THIS thread. So I don't think it's prophecy to say it probably won't last long. But who knows? Try it.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
I disagree with the suggestion to delete the thread, that is precisely the sort of action that resulted in the eruption of this thread.

I think the base of every legit concern so far comes from a place of frustration. It's obvious they are feeling like they aren't being heard and their opinions are either being dismissed or outright censured. The ability to discuss things as a community is important, and while most people are content to lurk and talk behind closed doors, whatever is discussed in public has the notion that it's being seen. People want to see that they're being listened to, and unfortunately PMs are, well, private, and can feel inconsequential, especially when very little changes after the matter.

Please, I love this site and I actually like a majority of the people here. But you have to understand why people are acting the way they are. And ultimately, that's what all this comes down to: people feel they aren't being heard. I know I'm repeating myself but I have to emphasize on it because I genuinely feel that point is being missed.


What stops people from PMing myself or other staff?

Because the public discussions only go so far before they get personal, ugly, or both.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
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Would you be okay with me making a thread about the moderation policy on this site, then? Because if I cannot discuss it here, I would wish to discuss it elsewhere. If you claim this is not my platform, please let me make my own.


Go ahead. It will still be subject to site rules. So...be careful.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
@Skullwombat

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"Anti-mod thing"? Are you trying to insinuate that everyone criticizing your actions as mod/admin is only doing it because he's rebelling against authority, any and all authority, indiscriminately?


Didn't you call me every name under the sun a few years ago?

I KNOW you're not here in good faith.
In Ask an Admin, v2. 6 yrs ago Forum: News
Ruby, please do not delete my posts. I am genuinely not posting in bad faith. My post was about having a discussion about how mods should be held accountable, the issue I entered this thread with, and I was not attacking you personally even though people have been claiming that of me.


Not the thread for that. If you have questions I can answer that's fine but this isn't your platform for the anti-mod thing.
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